if u can do nthg else, then tell the truth.
say, 'i dun knw who i was before now, and i dun knw who i will be trow'. say, 'there r thgs about me u'll never fix, and it is not ur job to fix me. take me or leave me alone'. say, 'i feel thgs i dun knw how to feel'.
say, 'we can be anythg, but we cant be everythg'. say, 'i can do nthg else, dis is me - and dis is all there is'.
and if anyone stays wit u, after u hav told them dat - stay wit them.
as long as they'll hav u.
and as long as they want u.