one of the factor dat is detrimental to success is the making of alibis. some ppl constantly r explaining and apologizing for themselves - finding excuses for their failings. "if only thgs ere different", as they say.
but i believe it is not dreaming and wishin but acting and workin dat make thgs different. dreaming and wishin r worth nthg at all unless backed by determination and effort. enuff said.
those who succeed dun dodge, dun camouflage - but face facts as they r in reality.
altho' s'times, it hurts.